Anal sex - 15 things you should know

Published on 20.12.2021 20:08

As a number of readers of our blog have written to us in the last week about some of our articles on anal sex and wanted to know more about this topic, we can of course not refuse this request and are therefore providing you with a few more facts on this topic. After all, the back door is becoming more and more popular and is experiencing a real hype thanks to mainstream porn. In this report, we therefore provide you with additional interesting research findings that make these anal love games so appealing. After all, we don't want to leave you alone with your itchy bum. Here you can find out what nobody else will tell you:

  • Everyone is allowed to have anal penetration - you should always orientate yourself towards the gender identity of the person you are attracted to and not towards the places where you stimulate yourself.
  • Anal sex doesn't make you gay - no one has the right to anal sex. You either like it or you don't. Everyone, and by that we mean all people, can indulge in their stimulation and intimate desires however they like.
  • Anal orgasm - yes, it exists and it is said to be fantastic for men with a prostate, as hundreds of nerve endings run not far from the so-called rectum, which are very sensitive and extremely irritable.
  • Letyour tongue play - this is known as rimming. A gentle caress of a clean anus gives many a lovemaking session an even better kick. Have a look with your mouth!
  • Poop on the cock after anal sex - this is a myth and is not true. Anyone who says this has never had real anal sex, as there is usually nothing of this kind in the rectum. If you want to be on the safe side, use an anal douche.
  • Pay attention to your diet before anal sex - you certainly can't always plan this, but if you do, we recommend that you try to pay a little attention to your diet beforehand. Stick to your normal diet and don't necessarily indulge in the full range of laxative foods. Your bowels and your partner will thank you for it.
  • Let it fart and smack - everyone knows it, the pussy fart. It's not just at the front, but also at the back. Somehow the air that you push into your partner with your steam hammer has to escape again. So relax, it's just air.
  • "Hello lubricant " - as there are no mucous glands at the back entrance, it is best to always lubricate it well. Nothing is more unpleasant than a sore arsehole, and it can also lead to injuries more quickly. So it's better to use more than too little.
  • Don't be a dummy, fuck with rubber - you wouldn't believe it, but the transmission of bacteria and other sexually transmitted diseases is even greater during rosette play than during vaginal sex.
  • Stretch, always stretch - there's no room for quick penetration during anal play. This is a muscle that is usually always tense. Therefore, as with sport, you should stretch it first and let it get used to the thickness of your cock. There are numerous bedside aids for this, such as an anal plug, which can support you in your endeavours. So don't do the anal quickie but warm up beforehand. As the saying goes: "You don't know what to expect down the rabbit hole."
  • "Don't worry", nobody is going to wear out here - as the arse muscle is one of our strongest muscles of all, you don't need to worry that it won't be able to swallow at some point. Whether it's a bottle of cola, a giant dildo or your partner's arm, nothing will wear out as long as it's not permanently inside you.
  • Always communicate nicely - it's certainly not exactly the English way to talk about arseholes, but in this case you should follow our advice. Ask if everything is ok, if the person is ready, if it's uncomfortable or hurts. Asking if it feels hot or expressing this yourself always goes down well with the other person. So talk to each other.
  • Start in the riding position - this is the best position for this. The reason for this is that you still have full control over penetration and can look each other in the eye. Then you can go as wild as you like.
  • "It hurts the first time, but not so much the second time " - this song lyric is somewhat true. If you're having anal sex for the first time, you'll probably feel some pain. So it doesn't necessarily mean that you've done something wrong.
  • Get it on top of that - switch off the pain and start enjoying it and feeling pleasure. So it's best to do it hard and fast.

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