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BDSM - What's the attraction?
BDSM - the kick that many people still need in their sex life! Many people love role-playing games in which the submissive person submits to a dominant person, in other words, the sub submits to the dom. Both roles can be taken on.
These so-called power games can be played out at home or in everyday life. As in a partnership, there are also a few rules in a BDSM partnership that should be adhered to. Anyone who does not abide by them will be punished. But that is exactly what makes it so appealing. That's what turns a BDSM player on, that's his game, he wants to punish or be punished. There are no limits to the imagination when it comes to punishment, but basic rules should still be laid down. Depending on how the punishment is carried out, so-called safe words or code words should also be defined, which are used when the limit is reached. The punisher must then stop immediately when the safe word is pronounced. This type of punishment can be carried out at home or in public.
We at my-Ladies have picked out the most popular "classics and trends" among BDSM punishments for you:
my-Ladies No1: SPANKING
Spanking means spanking or, in other words, giving a person a good spanking. In the Christian Grey "Fifty Shades of Grey" style. Spanking the bum or lightly slapping in the doggy style position can also be fun for non-BDSM fans. In addition to the punishment ritual, it is also a special pleasure pain that is felt. Some BDSM lovers even enjoy the use of leather gloves. Some also use crops, paddles or whips.
my-Ladies No 2: FIGGING
Figging makes you hot, figging burns! This is an old form of punishment that comes from Asia. A ginger root is at the centre of this method. (see article "Figging").
The root is carved into the shape of a penis and then inserted vaginally or anally. The essential oils in ginger cause a sharp, slightly burning sensation or pain. However, this is completely harmless and only increases the blood flow in the intimate region.
my-Ladies tip: When carving, make sure you have a wide platform so that you don't sink your ginger penis inside you.
my-Ladies No 3: TICKLING TORTURE
This is also an old method of torture. formerly used as an interrogation method, it still provides moments of power where you have to expose yourself to a loss of control. For this torture, the sub must be immobilised or tied up. This is the only way to ensure that he is completely at the mercy of the punisher. The torture can be carried out with hands, springs or other aids. The aim is to push the limits.
my-Ladies tip: The sensations on the skin become even more intense when blindfolded.
my-Ladies No 4: RIMMING
"You can lick my arse!" - This statement is taken very seriously here. Rimming is a kind of submission method. This wicked method in which the sub has to orally satisfy the dom's anus. The nerve endings in this region react very sensitively to external stimuli or stimulation - for the pleasure of the dom. Fixing the head intensifies the punishment.
my-Ladies No 5: ELECTROSTIMULATION
This method originated in modern times and has become a "classic" in the BDSM scene. Very intense electrical impulses get the body's nerve pathways, brain and pleasure centres working at full speed and push them to their limits. It becomes even more exciting when the sub is tied up.
We'll explain how to find the right play partner in our next article:
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For all beginners and newcomers in this field, we recommend the site "The BDSM Blog". This blog is a great guide and informs you about everything to do with BDSM. There is also a BDSM emergency telephone number where you can call in urgent emergencies. Click here for the blog!
